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Originally Posted by Amber_lv  Well this could go 2 ways......... Either he is setting you up for that old game called " I pay all the bills so i make all the rules " and he can throw it in your face all the time lol. If i was you i would work out something like he pays the house you pay the utilities or something like that. Or he could just be nice and not want you to pay but the word he doesn't want you to pay for HIS HOUSE hmmmm...
but i would never marry anyone unless i lived with them first. |
You are hilarious!! All those things went through my head!! LOL! I know that he would not throw it in my face, and I am totally the alpha dog in the relationship (I can use that metaphor - afterall, this IS a dog forum!!
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I think he feels weird making me pay since he makes 2 times what I make - and I'm not
making peanuts. When I started talking money he just started talking about how I would have to pay for all the fancy food that I like and I said 'well duhhh' - I mean, of course I would buy groceries! I just don't want it to turn into a free loading sugar daddy situation. That's not what I'm looking for...