Hi and welcome to YT. I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my little girl (Lily) almost two months ago, and it still hurts. I have a little boy yorkie, and my husband and I decided to get another boy, which we will get in October.
I know how you feel. At first, when my husband asked me if I wanted another one, I said no. I felt like getting another one would be betraying Lily, just like you're feeling. But, I have had alot of support from people here who have said that I would not be betraying Lily. I'm not trying to replace her, that's not possible.
I do think our babies (Nikki and Lily) would want us to go on with life and be happy. We were their caretakers, we loved them and took care of them in the best way possible, they knew that they were loved and they gave us love in return. They wouldn't want us sitting around being sad. They would want us to be happy. They know we still love them and always will.
If you ever need to talk, just PM me. Congratulations on your new baby! |