I am so sorry girl, i know exactly where your coming from though. My mom and I are going threw the same thing, More my mom though. My dad was doing drugs and we just found out and are back on payments about 5 months. on EVERYTHING. plus he took out credit cards maxed them,bought a new car the day we kicked him and my brother out, and now is using checks with her name on them and bouncing them every which way he can

just ruining pretty much everything. i know how tuff it can be, but just stick in there, you'll get threw it