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Originally Posted by xchristiex  very true, and i've thought about this. i hope this is what happens, but i just don't know. i've had plenty of time to think about it..but the more i think, the worse it gets. |
I'm sure thinking about it alot has just got you nervous is all
I know when I "over think" too much on things (especially things that I am nervous about) - I just make myself sick over it, and then I start getting full of doubt
Just try and clear your head and get your mind off of it for a while (I know that's easier said that done) - and wait until you actually meet this little one. Like I said, you may absolutely fall in love, babies are very easy to get attached too
And what the other poster said makes alot of sense - are you sure that you don't just dislike the MOTHER of the baby? Are you nervous that she may try and steal your boyfriend back now that the new baby is in the picture?
Just something that crossed my mind that I thought could be making you nervous/upset.