For your son to have such a strong reaction, something is wrong. He can't continue in that environment without intervention. Be honest with him about your concerns and what you intend to do. The secrecy thing seemed to trouble him, so I would be very up front with him about the actions you take.Good luck Mom!!!!! 
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