Oh honey, I'm so sorry. I've been there. I had 2 miscarriages before I finally had my 2 daughters. I did have to have the dnc's each time. I had to have surgery to be able to carry to term. My ob/gyn said that most insurance companies make you wait until you've had 3 miscarriages before they'll pay for a fertility specialist. I told her that's crazy, that I would pay for it myself if I had to. Could you imagine making a woman suffer through 3 miscarriages before agreeing to pay for something??? Talk about emotional torture! My insurance did cover it w/out any q's. My specialist did a test, I can't remember what it was called, hystero-something (I think it was a hysterosalpingogram) , where they shot dye into my uterus & tubes. My tubes were fine but my uterus was heart shaped instead of pear shaped & the part that was at the top that came down into the heart shape was similar to scar tissue w/out adequate blood supply and this is where the baby attaches. Long story short, I had surgery to correct this birth defect, had a hard time getting pregnant, used chlomid, got pregnant & finally had my first daughter. I'm sure since you said that you are going to a specialist that they've done all the tests, but if not you might want to check into this. I'm praying for you and I'm here for you if you ever need to talk. I hate to see anyone go through this because I know how painful it is. Sugar sends her hugs & kisses also.
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~Mindy~ |