I have found on most (if not all) message boards there is always some cattiness, rudeness, hurt feelings, etc. I, myself, am an admin at another message board and believe me what's going on here is not unusual! Whenever people of different backgrounds, religions, political beliefs, etc. come together and discuss topics... there's going to be some clashing. As a group we just have to remember... you can't make EVERYBODY happy all the time.