I agree that there are some pretty mean people out there, but I also have to say that there have been ALOT of people here who totally supported me through some tough times with my little Lily. I'd like to think that for every one mean person here, there are 10 nice ones to make up for it.
But, I do see what you're saying. I got a pretty nasty PM from someone on here the day Lily died. I don't know why people want to be mean or how they can be so heartless, but unfortunately, there are people like that. It's sad, really.