I agree w/ the other posters who say you should get out the boxes...since you have posted that you DON'T know what to do, then I would do nothing...any decision you do when your head is not clear & your heart is still bruised may become a big regret later...if you just put them away til you are sure & clear in your decision, don't do anything...when the time comes you will feel very confident in the end w/ no regrets...take your time...