[stephluvsangel6]

omg where or who took her to get it done? around here you absolutely have to have a parent if under 18 or show id if over 18.

i was so scared to have mine done that i never did it, and i had a friend who did and hers was sooo nasty but she isnt the cleanest girl, you have to keep it clean and mouth wash alot in fact i think after all drinks and food
and it can take a while to heal, 3-4 weeks is for the outer skin to heal cloaset to the earring, the rest is still healing, you can chip your teeth, you will talk a littel funny but you some people dont have any difference in talking, but personallly is she is responsible to take care of it i wouldnt worry as much, thats just health wise, not disobeying wise, health only but if she isnt much into taking care of it it can caryy risks, my husband had his tongue pierced twice and he still has holes, not big but he has them,


i just dont feel wel with the fact that shes 15 and got it done, it seems so young to me, around here you cannot get a piercing or tattoo done even WITH parental consent under 16, so i sure hope she didnt do it herself, thats can be even worse.

i wish you guys the best of luck and personally i dont know how to discipline her because she is your daughter and you guys have your own way of talking and workign things out, if it was my child, depending on age which at 15 i think i would rip it out and make it heal and bam a good slap on the head followed by taking away everything he has till he has learned not to disobey me

i mean if he was closer to being of age or of age i wouldnt hesitate as much to let him keep it but i really dont know, i wish you the best of luck, and just sit down with yourself and think about it, about everything you are telling us

much love and prayers sent your way
stephanie