I would let it heal and make her take it out. She can decide for herself when she isn't living with or getting financial support from you. The punishment is really up to you but outright disobedience is serious to me. My dentist office has a fit over tongue piercings. People can get so many problems from them.
__________________ Crystal  , Ellie May (RIP)  , Rylee Finnegan  , and Gracie Boo🐶 |