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xBUTTERCUPx · 07-08-2007, 07:55 PM

Okay no more goodbyes! I really hated to say goodbye.

My husband and I had a really long talk (over the phone), I mentioned before that he's never home. Only home to shower and sleep for 3-4 hours. After I knocked some sense in him, he told me that there is a 95% chance that he will take Buttercup to work with him. I told him that the secretary was new (only been on the job for 2 weeks) and barely knows how to operate the switchboard. She needed to be considerate of "THE BOSS" and let "THE BOSS" do what he wants because 'HE IS THE BOSS' So I feel much better now about the situation than I did before.

This is what we've worked out if he does decide to take Buttercup to work with him. He works from 5am-5pm Tuesday-Friday so Buttercup will be with him. There is a 2-hour drive home because traffic is crazy during peak hours, which is 4:30pm-6:30pm. He arrives home around 7-7:30pm. Buttercup will have dinner, go out to potty and hubby showers. After showering, Buttercup goes in his room for bed, hubby is out the door again at 10pm-12midnight. Saturday-Monday he is out to manage his other businesses and Buttercup can't come along. The nurse has volunteered to help out on those 3 days until I am able to get out of bed. Hopefully this will work out for me. (If you are curious, hubby is an architect. He co-owns a company based out of California with his brother and also own 3 gas stations, so basically he manages all that while I'm in college and taking care of our 4-year-old son)

I know many are curious as to what I'm getting surgery for. It is for a cyst that became malignant and has to be removed before it matastasize. Where it is located doesn't matter because either way, it's still an early form of cancer. I truly don't think it's fair for me, or anyone for that matter, to go through this. I would have to put my life in God's hands and hope for the best.

Sorry if it's such a long post because I don't know when I will be able to get back on because I have to prepare myself and accomodate my housing environment to where it's convenient for me after surgery and doing about 30 loads of laundry all by myself and getting it all pressed and in it's correct places.

I'm only 24 and I feel like I'm breaking apart already!

07-08-2007, 07:55 PM	#89
xBUTTERCUPx YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 905	Okay no more goodbyes! I really hated to say goodbye. My husband and I had a really long talk (over the phone), I mentioned before that he's never home. Only home to shower and sleep for 3-4 hours. After I knocked some sense in him, he told me that there is a 95% chance that he will take Buttercup to work with him. I told him that the secretary was new (only been on the job for 2 weeks) and barely knows how to operate the switchboard. She needed to be considerate of "THE BOSS" and let "THE BOSS" do what he wants because 'HE IS THE BOSS' So I feel much better now about the situation than I did before. This is what we've worked out if he does decide to take Buttercup to work with him. He works from 5am-5pm Tuesday-Friday so Buttercup will be with him. There is a 2-hour drive home because traffic is crazy during peak hours, which is 4:30pm-6:30pm. He arrives home around 7-7:30pm. Buttercup will have dinner, go out to potty and hubby showers. After showering, Buttercup goes in his room for bed, hubby is out the door again at 10pm-12midnight. Saturday-Monday he is out to manage his other businesses and Buttercup can't come along. The nurse has volunteered to help out on those 3 days until I am able to get out of bed. Hopefully this will work out for me. (If you are curious, hubby is an architect. He co-owns a company based out of California with his brother and also own 3 gas stations, so basically he manages all that while I'm in college and taking care of our 4-year-old son) I know many are curious as to what I'm getting surgery for. It is for a cyst that became malignant and has to be removed before it matastasize. Where it is located doesn't matter because either way, it's still an early form of cancer. I truly don't think it's fair for me, or anyone for that matter, to go through this. I would have to put my life in God's hands and hope for the best. Sorry if it's such a long post because I don't know when I will be able to get back on because I have to prepare myself and accomodate my housing environment to where it's convenient for me after surgery and doing about 30 loads of laundry all by myself and getting it all pressed and in it's correct places. I'm only 24 and I feel like I'm breaking apart already! Last edited by xBUTTERCUPx; 07-08-2007 at 07:57 PM.