This is a website where honest opinions and experiences w/ breeders is much appreciated. People USE these opinions to guide their purchasing a new furry member of their family.
Since you've taken steps, ad nauseum, to contact her - with no reply - I think it is prudent to post your experience. If her position is defensable, then I'm sure she will post her side of the story.
The breeders on this site share some of the strongest opinions on this board (perhaps sometimes a bit too strong

LOL). Their opinions are almost always greatly appreciated and respected. HOWEVER, FOR A BREEDER TO MAINTAIN A RESPECTED OPINION AND REPUTATION, THEY SHOULD CONTINUE TO SHOW IT IS DESERVED, YES?
You,
as a BUYER, are just as entitled to share your opinion and experience - and I commend you for doing so! It is clear it took a lot of thinking for you to arrive at this point.