wow, I don't know what to say about all of this. I'm just stunned
Timmy, I am so sorry to hear about your sick girl..that is heartbreaking and I pray that the surgery goes well. You are a wonderful person for giving a chance to this little baby who has been with you for such a short time.
Michiko, I can see that writing this was hard for you. You did a beautiful job of expressing your frustration and disappointment without bashing or getting petty... that says a lot about the kind of person you are.
I hope that all of this gets resolved.