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Originally Posted by YorkieMom2  I feel like I am getting pounced on becasue I "left" them. The reason I left them is because I was in the hospital with a broken neck and a 9 hour surgery because of my husbands actions. When I left the hospital, I didnt go back to my home. My parents did all they could to help me, but who was going to take care of my dogs while my parents were in the hospital with me.
I just wanted to make it clear that I didnt leave them by choice.
Thank you everyone for your advice. |
You do not have to tell everyone your personal business ie surgery, etc. Life is not "black or white" and you made the right decision at the time for your pups plus yourself. I can understand your concern about five kids and the safety of your pups. Distance involved to see them and the uncomfortable setting that is involved with his girlfriend.
Try to talk to him in a rationale tone and it doesn't matter what happened yesterday, but today. Good luck
PS I am sure no one intentionally set out to hurt your feelings.