[Biddy's Mom]

Originally Posted by teri88

Well Heather, I was going to let it go, but you did say "correct me if I am wrong". Your opinion, which you are absolutly entitled to is not what is wrong. But your attack on Alicia, trying to make her feel guilty when she already had made a difficult decision was WRONG. Just because you would choose to stay home and alianate your future in-laws and fiance doesn't mean she has to make that decision also. Her yorkie is a responsibility, a big one. That is why she spent thousands of dollars she didn't have to make him better, and came right to YT for the love and support she deserved. May I suggest that you go back and read her earlier posts, hopefully that will give you some sympathy for what she has been through. It's not the CRUISE that was important but the fact that her in-laws-to-be expected her there and it could have caused harm to her relationship with them to stay home. Her responsibility was to make sure Joey had good care. Her mother is there, he is recovering and out of danger. Sounds like she did the right thing to me. You mentioned you have children so you must know how difficult it is to juggle all of our responsibilities at times. You have every right to your opinion, but please don't make someone feel like less of a mom for the choices that they have to make unless you are in their situation and know what they are going through. Someone else posted that they know you and you are a good and caring yorkie mom. I'm sure what you said was because you were so concerned for Joey and that's great. But, please keep Alicia in your thoughts also. What she is going through is not easy, she needs our support. Thanks!

Well said, Teri. I think it is important to give her support. That's what she needs right now.