I hear ya woman! Yep, we do it don't we. I'm such a detail hound, I hate it when my place isn't all put together. And I admit when I go to one of my friends homes and it's messy, I'm thinking, "Wonder what's going on here? Wonder if something's wrong? Why is the house such a mess? Is she in trouble? Should I offer help? Should I say anything? " Or if it's someone I don't know I'm thinking "Whoa, hope they don't invite me back soon. Hope I don't have to use the bathroom. Wow, look at that floor."
Men never get it, but our home is us. It reflects who we are and if it's not at its best, then we feel completely worthless and know we are going to be
judged. It's what we do. Sigh!