Kim & Gerry, well said! Couldn't have put it better myself. As a somewhat " yorkie talk newbie" myself, I do feel that, although responding with the best of intentions, some of the responses to some of the discussions can be taken as judgemental & even derogatory by other members. I hope the young girl from the mall does join Yorkie Talk as she will find it a fountain of helpful information & resources...I know I did. Like Kim though, I also hope she doesn't read this thread & get her feelings hurt.