Kim,
I think you've done a great thing, you are doing your best and I quite understand your predicament. You've managed to help two of the three which is already a great start and I know you'll help the little maltese as well. One step at a time!
I did not mean to offend you with the remark about studying. I understand those priorities believe me! But you were so obviously upset by what you had seen that I could imagine under the current stress it would be twice as stressful and I personally would have difficulties focusing. But thats just me!
I personally don't judge you. I think you're dealing with a tough situation and you're doing the best you can. I may be reading too much between the lines but I get the feeling you're under phenomenal pressure and you just feel like you're being torn in all directions. I merely wanted you to make sure that you follow your heart (which clearly is a good one) and make sure that the decisions you make are right for you.
Now, seeing as we are all so shocked... and you dear Kim are footing the bill for two of these poor creatures, would any of the members here consider donating a few dollars to help cover some of the medical expenses so that its not all on poor Kim's hubbys shoulders?? Just a thought, I reckon if a few of us were to pitch 5 or 10 bucks we could help out.... |