Kathryn, I'm sorry to hear of all that you are going through, but it sounds like you and the Heavenly Father have it all worked out. He's pretty good at coming alongside us when we need Him and let Him, isn't he?
I'm so glad to hear that you are showing your love for your dad in such a tangible way. It is very encouraging to all of us with grown children. I know my daughter would help me and take care of me if I needed it, but it's wonderful to see the example. God bless you really, really good Kathryn.