 Oh man, been there, done that!
hey girl,
2 years ago I was engaged to the man I was with for 10 years!!! We met when I was 19. We broke up when I was 22, and again when I was 24 and yet again when I was 28, engaged and owning a house with the guy. Talk about rollercoaster relationship. Often times I would think about breaking up with him when we were fighting but I never did. I think that is a sign that YOU are not truely happy if you think that way during a fight. Anyways, after 10 years I have to start over.. Im 30 now, single and watching everyone around me settle down and get married, engaged, have a child... and I dont even have a potential partner anymore.
You are young... dont waste time with someone who does not love you like they should. If he is saying he doesn't know... that is not good enough! I know it hurs now, but it hurts way way way worse in 10 years when you realized that you wasted a DECADE trying to get someone whom you loved sooo deeply to love you back just as much! You can't make someone love you. Sadly!
I wish I let the relationship go after the first breakup! Its just not worth the fight anymore at some point... only you know that point! good luck!! Remember the pain does go away, so if you are afraid of being upset and hurt, right now, its only temporary. Further down the line it could be scarring and permanent. (((HUGS)))
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