Sorry your going through this, but you are still young...so is he. Take my advice, if he wants to go let him go. You dont have kids yet, your not married. Let him go and you go to college and get a degree (if you dont already have one) and THEN focus on finding someone who will love you for you and not run somewhere everyday to play games!! I am 23 years old, i got married at 19. We have 2 children together, and hes 8 years older than me. Men our age dont know what they want and they are in no way ready to settle down and cut loose of the little 2 year old that is still controling every part of them. I do not regret getting married so young, my husband is great. But he is older and was ready and so was I. But now I am a mother, a wife, have a full time job, working through nursing school and of course all my little critters....its very hard. Go to school while you still have the chance, live in the dorms, go party on the weekends, do whatever you want to do. You dont need anyone to make you happy. Please dont take any of this the wrong way ok. Just take it from somebody that knows what its like when you get married before you get school out of the way first. |