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Originally Posted by Txgurl06  i need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have been doing good and bad. We have been arguing a lot lately over little stuff. Today he told me that he doesnt think we should be together maybe we should take some time apart. I feel like such a failure! We planned on so much one day and im just so stressed out. And im not sure if its working or not but i love him soooo much and i have been there for him through everything. He said maybe we should end it and be friends I dont know how to let go because im not ready but he is. I think im making stuff worse but making him stay and holding on. Im sooo upset. Im crying my heart out! It just turned out so different and i never thought he would really be tired of me. I just dont know what to do!! sorry i needed to vent. |
Honey, I"m SO sorry you are going through this. I know when people give advice it's "easier said than done" but trust me on this one...if he doesn't want you, let him go. I was engaged and ready to be wed in Aug 2005. In June 2005 he called off the wedding. I was a MESS!!!! I cried a lot and saw a therapist. I also got Baby, who helped a lot! I also read a GREAT book called He's Just Not That Into You. I would get that if I were you. Also, know what helps with depression? Medication. I never wanted to take meds, but it SO helps with the healing.
Good luck, and if you need to talk, PM me.
