[La_T_Dog]

I too am sorry that you are having to go through this. I know that break ups are really hard and very emotional. I have had my share as well. But I have to tell you that the right person will come along and you have to know him when you see him. And I don't mean that every Mr. Wrong is a big jerk, some really nice guys can be just "wrong".

I was engaged once to the "wrong" guy. He was perfectly nice. But 2 months before our wedding he said he thought we were making a big mistake. And after I cried a river and thought about it, I knew he was right. We had been together for 2 years also. At that time 2 years seemed like forever. But after I broke off my engagement I began dating my now husband.

I have been married for 10 years now to the most perfect man in the world FOR ME! He may not be right for everyone, but we really have the most amazing relationship I know. That doesn't mean that we don't fight-- we do. But it is what happens during and after the fight. He has NEVER threatened to leave me, he has never suggested that we not be together or that he made some kind of mistake. And I feel that way too. I know in my heart of hearts that he is the one that I was meant to be with.

And that is what I wish for you-- to find the right one. My husband and I both joke about all of the "practice relationships" we had to go through to get to where we are. But we all have to wade through them. Like they say, "A girl has to kiss a lot of frogs to find her prince!"