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Originally Posted by Txgurl06  i guess because we have just been bickering a lot. I just feel like i cant do it. We are still together right now he went to his brothers for a couple of hours. but i know he is just staying with me because he knows it hurts me. But i think i may be making it worse making him stay if he doesnt want to. He is truely everything to me really and my life would COMPLETELY change. i dont know hes 21 and maybe he just feels tied down 2 yrs is a long time. I just feel like i get the worst end of everthing ive done sooo much for him and i have NEVER did anything to hurt him. I wish he would see that hes letting something good go. I know im a sissy and need to suck it up but really truely it hurts sooo much. I started putting his stuff in a bag because he started to then stopped because of me so maybe when he gets back tonight i will tell him that I will let him go if thats what he really wants and i support his decision. I scared he wont miss me at all tho. |
That is a very wise and grown-up decision. It is very hard, and I think we've all been through it at some point. You're allowed to cry, cry all you want! You can't make him stay, and truthfully you DON'T want him to stay if he doesn't want to, because in reality it's just putting off the inevitable and it will make it even worse if it ends. Let him go, let him take his time, he may realize he wants to come back and he may not. He may never let on that he misses you but i'm positive he will. The funny thing about love is that if you truly love someone you don't "fall out of love" you can choose to ignore love or decide not to love, anything else is just an excuse. I think your decision is very brave which says a lot about you as a person, you're not a sissy, you're a person, with feelings. If you need to talk, please let me know. Good luck and remember you are brave, you can get through anything, and yorkie kisses help!