Thank you guys so much for your support. For a second this lady did make me feel bad and question myself... but then I came to my senses and realized that I am definitely not in the wrong.
I have gone to another breeder here in S. California (world kennel) and looks like I have found a baby to love. Kelly had so many beautiful babies to choose from... if it were up to me I would of taken them all.
Kelly was asked the same questions as the defensive breeder and was not offended at all. Great personality while maintaining professionalism.
Thanks again for your help. So nice to know that there are so many caring friends on this site.