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Originally Posted by AngelWorks  She needs to report it. Whatever the process is for a restarining order--she needs to find out and get one.
She needs to get a court appointed person to do the off-site daughter exchange when he has visitation so she doesn't have to be involved.
Change those locks, and add a couple deadbolts.
She needs to NOT communicate with him AT ALL. Cut off all contact.
A restraining order would cover her at work as well so if he coming round there or calling--he needs to be reported.
Everyone at her work need to be aware and also cut him off.
There is NO middle ground or compromise with a person like her ex------none.
She needs you all to stand up for her now and step in-----she will not be able to do this alone as he knows just what buttons to push (he installed them) to get her to crack.
Please help her--her life really does depend on it.
Everyone thinks it can't happen to them---every woman six feet under at the hands of an abuser thought so too. |
I think she is in the process of changing her locks. From what my bf told me yesterday when we spoke on the phone was that she spoke to him(her ex) but he didn't hear what they were talking about. He said that she said something about just taking care of her daugther and that he should just do his part. She also went to his family's house to show them the bruises and tell them. The guys sister works with her, so they are co workers, they can't really cut all ties. It's a complicated situation, however she is making it more complicated by not doing anything about it. She is disregarding what happened. When she found out I told my brother what happened and asked for his advice she got mad and said not to tell him anything else and to forget about it. Soo.......not really sure what to do here
