I've only been married for two years and am in my early 20's, so I may not have the best advice, but I have learned a lot about myself and my hubby in this short time.
To be honest I am a lot more like your husband so I understand him a bit more. One thing I have noticed is that I am more willing to open up when my hubby tells me what he felt when I (example: ignored him, was aloof etc) he will ask if he did anything wrong or if there is something on my mind. Being honest is hard sometimes. But I prefer a humbling even risky confrontation than living with an elephant in the room. Hope that helps. |