Thank you for your help ! I AM going to have a good talk and see what exactly is the reason he keeps pushing this -
I do everything myself for the girls but he really loves them - I have enough in my heart to give attention to TEN yorkies but my problem is thinking too much of long term....
Then I look at Chanel and Cheri and wonder what would happen if we had to move or I had to return to work full time again....it's like a big ongoing conversation in my head and I can't say to him - What if you're not around ? So I tip toe around the issue when he brings it up -
It seems like he's hears me laughing or saying someone got the CUTEST puppy and he locks onto that and wants me to start looking for a puppy....money is my only aurguement at this point - but I hate to use his illness as my only reason for not getting a puppy cause that's like saying he isn't going to live long. This IS hard. |