I have to agree with you. I feel the same way at times but try very hard
to keep my mouth closed! That's not easy sometimes
There is a woman in my office that is a very close friend of mine for 40yrs.
Her son has a Yorkie who is 6yrs old. She constantly brags how well he
takes care of this dog. Well let me just tell you that the pup has had
6 adult teeth removed due to lack of care, kidney and liver problems due
to horrible diet and has no training and they laugh when the dog jumps and grabs food out of someone's hand while they are eating at the table

. My stomach just flips when she starts talking. I have nicely explained
the care of a Yorkie to her and she just brushes it off and says her son
loves this dog to death and takes such good care of it! I want to scream
at times but I can't say anymore without accusing her son of being
just plain dumb! His past diet, before being sick, consisted of grapes

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meal loaf with garlic and onion in it and meatballs more garlic &
onion hence kidney problems! Also my daughter is a groomer and he brought the dog to be groomed. My daughter refused to cut his nails because they were so long they were twisted around. She told him to take
him to the vet to get them cut. My friend came in to work a couple days
later and stated that my daughter was afraid to cut the dogs nails!
Your damn right she was because they were so deformed from lack of care.
It's not easy to keep your mouth shut when it comes to the proper care
of these little guys and even harder when you have to work with someone
who thinks they know more than you do. To keep my sanity I try and ignore her because she believes her son knows everything and I just
gave up trying to help. It's like talking to a cement wall!