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Originally Posted by JESSY_RN2B  ....As addressed to HighlandYorkie (Debra)"I would also like to point out that from reading several of your other posts, it is so easy to remember you as you seem to be very rude and nasty yourself and then turn around and claim others are on this board.
I don't know if you are frustrated or just utterly bitter because life is now what you would like it to be, but I suggest you get some professional help or spiritual counseling (if you believe in it of course).
It is not healthy the way you express yourself and reflects very poorly on your character. There are many sick, injured, disabled people on here as well. I urge you not to act this way.........please.
Jess[/B] |
Obviously there is already history here and I may have missed something. But just looking at this thread, it seems that I probably would have come a little unglued myself if someone purposefully made a comment like Yorkiedreams/Newfiedreams did when she posted: "
If, for example, I had or carried a disease or illness that I knew I had a more than 50% chance of passing on to my children, I doubt very much that I would have had any children!" ...... seemed like hitting below the belt when it was posted to someone who has "
Ehlers Danlos Syndrome type 3/4, a hereditory life shortening condition with a 50% chance of passing it on to any offspring" and HAS passed it on to her offspring -- a double tragedy -- which has been addressed before! I am certain that sort of thing would fire me up too. It is no one's right to judge AND it is against YT Rule #2 which states: "
Any posts that are downright sick or cruel towards another member or their Yorkie will not be tolerated and will be deleted." Just completely uncalled for!
I think the negative tone was set with her first reply in ALL CAPS, insinuating yelling (YT Rule #3!). Afterall, no one died and named someone here the Breeding Police. I also read previously that having two member names was prohibited on Yorkie Talk. That was brought up directly to this same person before and still they post under two different names. Trivial in a way but just another blatant refusal to follow some simple rules for courtesy and order. But then no one died and named me the forum police either.
I am not saying one is all right and one all wrong -- but it just seems that fuel was definately added to this fire. Much harder to keep a calm head when someone attacks you on such a personal note. BTW -- we are very different Debra's -- not even in the same country! And no, not condoning all her words either -- just understanding how hurtful some of those words must have been to her.
I feel for the OP -- a simple question turned into a molten attack -- for what purpose or contribution to the forum? I don't get it!
I wish things like this did not happen -- but this forum is just a slice of the real world. All in all -- probably a much better than average slice so I count us all fortunate in the end.