OMG, my mother would slap me across the room if I ever talked to her that way and I am 42...My daughter wouldn't disrespect me that way either, she tells me how she feels and I tell her how I feel, but she wouldn't talk to me that way at all...My son is getting married in October and I am afraid that I will have the same problem with my future daughter in law, but if she does that is going to be there loss not mine...I didn't raise my children to talk to me that way, and I will not let her either...I can cuss just like the rest of them if I have too, but you have to have some respect for your parents and yourself...I hope things get better for you Jeanie, but if your DIL doesn't come around its her loss, cause she is missing out on a chance to know a great person....
