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Originally Posted by JeanieK  See this is what I try to do when she wants to argue, She calls that "messing with her mind" or "Playing mind games" I guess because I quit letting her bait me into an argument. I try to stay calm and ask things like "why do you feel that way" etc. and she just gets angrier. That is what led her to calling me a "stupid old lady". She is 28 going on 15. |
Sounds like she just wants to fight. Perhaps that was how she was raised and that is how she is used to dealing with things
Maybe you could write her a letter explaining your feelings to her. Sometimes, I find that if you write something to someone they can go back and re-read it and they can't take anything out of context or misconstru what you are saying since it is right there on paper staring them in the face. Maybe it could be a start to a better relationship for you two...I am sorry you are having to deal with this
