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Originally Posted by BlondieGirl87  .
I try to deal with people that I have problems with much like I would a case. I make my argument in a polite, civil way and don't feel the need to grovel to a lower level by calling people names. I find most of the time when people start calling names its an attempt to hurt the other person because they feel by "wounding" them they will put themselves in a higher position of power. I've never felt the need to use bad language to get my point across. |
See this is what I try to do when she wants to argue, She calls that "messing with her mind" or "Playing mind games" I guess because I quit letting her bait me into an argument. I try to stay calm and ask things like "why do you feel that way" etc. and she just gets angrier. That is what led her to calling me a "stupid old lady". She is 28 going on 15.