my mum died 8 years ago and im so glad we had a really close bond so these women who do talk to there mothers like that will live to regret it when they have no mother
i would never talk to my mum like that and i would never be rude to my partners mum, if she did do something that upset me i would just talk to her nicely
you said these are mums to be that are saying this stuff to there mums well you just wait till there are giving birth i bet the person they want will be there mums, and i wonder how they would feel if there children grow up to talk to them like it.
even if i didnt get on with my partners mum i would never stop her from seeing my partner or any children we had.