I had a hysterectomy, so I say this from experience and LOVE. GET THE F away from the vacuum, step away from the washer and dryer, and sit yer ass down! Your husband should be SHOT, wtf is he doing, trying to kill you? I'm sorry to be so blunt, but OMG you could really hurt yourself badly and then have to have MORE surgery and possibly die. Your family obviously thinks that they know better than the surgeon
Please take care of yourself