Dont go. I dont think anybody meant anything to sound bad with how they replied to you. That can be the problem with forums and typing- you can take it the wrong way because you dont know the attitude of how something is being written. I really think people were just trying to be helpful. I am very close to your age and completely understand the frustration you are going through with training your dog. My Chloe is 6 months and she is still not potty trained. I have tried the puppy pads and they didnt work. I also have a hard time letting her out as often as she needs to go out(which is a lot for her). But I know it was this way with my other dogs but they all have learned and so will she.. eventually. I have just been making her wear diapers and if I leave for a couple hours I keep her in a crate. SHe is so cute and loveable that its all worth it as I am sure it also is with your yorkie. Good luck and I hope you stay with us