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Originally Posted by dobiedude  Ok first off remember when we men get around each other we act like total boys! Its in our nature. They are all really young and have some growing up to do so you can't hold too much of their antics against them. Your BF may not be one of the Alpha males in the group thus the picking on him. If he was to step up he may not be picked on as much. If you love your BF let him have his guys night out and you guys have your couple night out. It seemed to work for me and Mrs Dobie. Well she says I am still a boy a heart (and act like it most of the time)
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I understand that guys can act liek boys when they are around each other. I grew up with my older brother..and it's not a problem when they're playing video games and such, etc. My bf still plays video games and I know some people that are married and in their 30s and say their husbands do too. We just like to go out together and not separatly because we know how our friends are. Like my girl friends have a lot of guy friends and like to party and he doesn't want me to be doing that if he's not around, so same goes for him. It depends on the situation. If he wants to hang only with the boys and see a movie or something then fine. But usually I don't like him to have too many guys night because his friend, the one I don't like likes to talk disrespectfully about girls and how be 'bones' so many of them, and blah blah blah. My bf is not like that but I don't like that he's around ppl like that. It makes me think what if he turns in to one of them and they lure him to cheat or something. I'm a little jealous, or alot...i dunno. But he is fine with that..he just wants to be able to see them and I can't stand them. I can 'stand' being around them but the way they talk about girls and stuff is really immature to me. idk i might just act older.