Big hug from me and lots of puppy kisses from Momiji to you.
Personaly, if a person feels no desire to have child then we shouldn't force a person to have one. The child will be raised in the environment where she or he won't be receiving the love that the child deserves.
Every children deserve lots of love but if the parents are not sure about having kids, how can they receive love from the parents???
I am in the middle as well. I'm in late 30's and still looking for a husband. I am not really a kid?s person myself so I am not sure....
My father is crazy about kids. He just loves kids so he has been asking for last almost 20 years to be a grand-father!!!
But he also love Momiji (which they haven't met yet... in 2 weeks they will visit me from Japan!!!)
I'm sure I'll love my child to death but do I really want one at this stage, I'm getting old and I am so happy with my yorkie....
So I'll let God decide.
If I have one, then I'll have one.
If not, hope my father will forgive me.... |