Your right this will be a big problem in the future. It may become that because you have a problem with his friends that you will definitely have a problem with him in the future. My situation (before I got married) was always this: If I loved his friends we usually had a good relationship. If I hated his friends we did not. The reason for this was: There is a reason why he is attracting these kind of people........which you may soon find out why and may or may not have a detrimental impact on your relationship. I
However, on the flip side if you really want this to work out you have to come to a compromise about his friends. I know if anyone ever said they disliked my friends I would be a little hurt by it. I have to ask......can you deal with his friends (take it with a grain of salt) or do you utterly loathe them and being around them makes your skin crawl? |