What do you do if you don't like your boyfriend or spouse's friends? My bf and I have been going out for 1 yr and 3 months. We have known each other since Freshman yr in highschool but never spoke too much. By Senior yr we got to know each other better but I had a bf. My ex and I broke up when I went away to college. My current bf and I went to College together and that is how we got to really know each other. We became good friends and eventually started going out that same yr. Since senior yr in high school we have had the same group of friends. He has hung out with the same guys since sophmore yr and still friends with them now. My girlfriends from hs know him well and vise versa. The problem is I really dislike like 2 of his friends, which are like his best friends. I think they are really immature and act so stupid. They are about 20 yrs old and don't even act like it sometimes. One of the guys is the same guy I mentioned in a previous thread that told me he wished my yorkies would die. When we go out, since we all hang out together and my girlfriends are friends with his guys friends, etc. I tolerate being around them but inside I can't wait to get away. He thought I liked them but he recently found out I don't because everytime he wants us to hang out together I always make up excuses and finally told him I don't like them. They always make fun of him, call him gay which is SO stupid becuase he is in no way gay or even act it. It is just a guy thing they do I guess. But I hate the fact that they are always making fun of him and he just laughs it off. It ticks me off and I'm always telling him to atleast say something to them or they will always do it but he says he doesn't mind because he knows they are playing and that's how 'friends' play around. Yea right. I understand playing around once in a while but EVERY time we hang out they do this and my bf never makes fun of them, he is such a good friend. I sense this will turn in to a big problem in the future because my bf and I always hang out together on the weekends, we both go out together wherever it is and recently we haven't because I don't like being with his friends. They annoy me. We don't hang out on our own, like go to parties, etc. So what is a girl to do? Srry this is soooooooo long..it's just been on my mind and I love my bf. I just don't want it to be a problem.
