Is he possibly jealous of the affection you're giving to BeanSprout? Try to give your husband some extra attention over the next few days and see if he just feels replaced. I would think that if he really dislikes dogs to the extent you describe he would have talked this over with you before you got your dog. Men act so tough on the exterior, but they're really just a bunch of softies inside. Try not to talk about the puppy at all while you're giving him attention. (believe me- I know it's hard!) Leave your husband a little note on the bathroom mirror telling him you love him and have a good day, give him a backrub, make his favorite meal... Don't let him move out of the bedroom!! It's not a good step anyways, but if he's jealous and you let him go, it will probably make things worse. See if it's the jealousy thing first. If not, ask him to explain his feelings. (The dog smelling is not a valid explanation!) He owes you an explanation of some sort.
Good luck, and keep us posted. |