[Bizzymammabee]

The girls are right on the money. I work with lawyers and I see how their schedules are while in law school and then when they start working. If he feels your time is limited now then there really will be a lot of problems after and you are moving into that area. As an atty you put in a lot of hours and your not going to work 9-5 because most firms unless you work for a very small practice require a minimum of 2000 hours plus just to be on track and it's a good bit more to get your year end bonus.

Also think about this if that is his reaction to your fur babies then what would it be like when and if you had children with him. My husband gets a greeting when I get home and so do my three small children, then it's immediately out to walk lex and lulu and then I am back inside to prepare dinner for my family.

Honestly he is showing a lot of signs that would make me go screaming from the room. When you have men act like that they will make you miserable. He is already showing a ton of selfcenteredness. It's not like you are ducking spending time with him to sit and watch all my children.

It is very true that life takes many turns and has many levels. If you look back you can clearly see how you can and will outgrow people and situations at different points in your life.

As for the numbers and messages that shows clearly that if he is not already cheating (which I think he does seeing as he needs attention) he has it on his mind. When you are in a committed relationship there is no entertaining talking to the ex or taking phone numbers.

Honestly honey you are young and moving up in the world. Leave him where he is and concentrate on you and your goals. A good man is hard to find but I don't think that he is one and worth your sacrifices and tears.

Good luck on what you choose to do.