I really don't have advise, but wanted you to think on somethings:
1. Is your head more right than your heart, in most cases?
2. Could you have outgrown the relationship, because your interest and his are no longer the same?
3. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Where do you see him? Are you both in the same place professionally, spiritually, mentally, maturity-wise, etc.?
4. Why are you putting up with the cheating factor? (in other words, why are you considering giving him a second chance?) Does he really deserve it?
5. What has he done for you lately? He was the one that cheated. If he wants you back in the relationship, shouldn't it be on your terms, not his?
6. Once you become a lawyer and demands are made on your time by the clients and your company (it's not a 9-5 job), where is he going to be and how is he going to feel?
7. Do you really see things changing to mutually satisfy both of you? Is it better to cut your loses and focus on your career and future with the "knowing" that there is someone out there that will be mature, understand the time pressures you are under and love your dogs as much of you and you will be in a better position to meet them, because you are free to. |