I joined about a year ago and I didn't feel like I belonged but I'm typically not a "forward" person--I usually sit back and people watch--but I get really chatty after I get to know someone better. I started to feel like I was a part of the site when I opened Cafe Max and started selling treats here because I had the opportunity to speak with people more. Then daisy mae06 sent me a Christmas card, which was really sweet. There still are some days when I feel out of the loop but that's okay
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