thanks you, i will keep in touch. I dont want to turn to medication either. Ive even thought about submitting to be on the dog whisperer

 . And I know what you mean about taking him everywhere, i do that too. i mean i guess the one good thing is when he's in his crate he WILL NOT poop or pee, no matter how much he has to go, but i also go to school and if i left him in his crate while i went to work it would mean he would only see me a couple hours a day. but he still stresses out in his crate and has destroyed part of the towel over his crate and to my surprise i came home and found a big hole in a shoe box i had left to close...its frustrating.  
My mom is home most of the time but refuses to let him out when she's there, she use to but now she wont at all. unlike me she doesnt like dogs and she does like soma but will not watch him for me...it makes it even more frustrating... 
but ya, keep in touch with me. that way if i find something i can tell you and if you find something you can help me 
