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Originally Posted by Angela  As a member here who has re homed two adults I can say for me I had personal reasons that I would not post to share with the world why I feel 100 % my girls would be better off in another home. One has left already, I get wonderful updates on her and I am very happy I placed her in that home. Seanna leaves on the 26th and I feel I have the best possible home for her. If for any reason the homes can not keep them, they are to come back here to live forever. I hope that dosen't happen, but I do love them very much and could not imagine them going through this more than once. This has forever changed something in me and I will be the first to say to make SURE as much as you can be sure of anything that your life is 100 % forever ready for a pet. For those of you who feel you need to tell me this or that, its your right to post it as much as I have a right to post here, but I will not get into a debate about something already so hard for me to deal with. I just wanted to say that before you judge or make conclussions about situations consider you do not have all the facts and its not reasonable to expect people to post everything going on in their life. Now, I know some people like to post that and may even need to post all.....lol this could go on forever. I will end here.
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Angie,
You are such a caring a responsible mom! Your reasons for re-homing are personal and they are valid to you and thats all that matters. In your defense I want to say that I am so impressed with you as a person. Your main goal was to find THE BEST home for your furbabies, so they could be loved and cared for forever. Through all of our talks you were always looking for what was best for both of your girls. It was very clear to me that you were putting the dogs first. I could tell how hard the re-homing was for you, and through it all your compassion and unselfishness shined through. Your dogs came first and you made sure of that. You did what was best for them even if that meant it made you sad!
You are a caring and thoughtful mom who is re-homing for the right reasons.
There are some re-homers on here who are genuinely looking for what is best for their dog and I applaud them for that. However, some of the other ads (other than breeders and people having tough times) are re-homing because they are giving up. The funny thing is that it is usually the owner who is not trained and behaving, not the dog. They decided that thier cute puppy grew too big, too hyper, too defiant, not potty trained soon enough, etc. Basically they decided to stop trying and it had nothing at all to do with giving the dog a good (better) home. Those are the people who don't care about thier animals...you are re-homing your dogs so that they can have a better life.
Thank you for everything!
Cara
