I think she is doing really well now. The biggest problem, I think, wasn't from the spay...but having dewclaws removed from her rear legs. That was what was causing all the pain.
They said I could remove the bandages in 3 to 5 days and when we hit the 3rd day, I took them off. She is being pretty good. Licking a lot but not chewing. She listens when I tell her to stop but I have discovered that she will go elsewhere so that I cannot see her when she does it. Smart little cookie.
Stitches out next week and it is all over!! Hooorah!!!!!
Thank you all for your caring responses.