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Originally Posted by Thorsmomma  He would scratch a hole through the door! And of course bark like crazy...and whine. I though he was going to kill himself last night the way he was barking, whining, and panting from getting himself all worked up.!!!
To answer some other question, he slept in my room with me on the floor, or in the bed, which ever he chose. He's always been flexible I guess you could say. When I lived with my X he slept in the bed. Then I moved home with my 'rents and he slept in his crate, then in my room, or sometimes in my parents bed.
Why can't he sleep in our room anymore. My BF is a firefigher  has a crazy schedule, needs sleep when he's home, and sleeps very lightly. Thor gets up and whines in the night. OR will just start prancing around. Our bedroom is very small and we can't fit a crate in there.
He's got water, a blanket, a shirt that smells like me, a bone...a nice bed...He just has to be at my feet all the time. Also my BF is tired of Thor being so attached to me (he is a little too attached) and get jealous of the attention that I have to give to Thor constantly so he'll just act normal.
Everyone says this will take time but how long? I can't do this much longer and I don't want to give up on him.
thanks for listening and all the responses! |
Sorry I didnt see this post... you are dating a firefighter?
Be SMART and GET OUT NOW! HAHAHA My ex-fiance is a fire fighter! we were together 10 years, and it went downhill the last 5 when he became a firefighter!
Seriously though, your bf needs to understand that your baby is your baby! What happens if someday you have a real baby? He cannot get mad at the baby for crying at night! Let Thor sleep in the bed like he always has! Remember this is your house, your life and your bed too! Your bf should not dictate what to do with your baby! someone said you are a package deal! you are! You come with your baby boy! Me & my firefighter broke up, but i"ll tell you something, I am dating a guy now who Id kick to the couch before I wouldn't let my dogs sleep in my bed! even when I sleep at his house my dogs sleep in his bed! I wouldn't sleep there if they couldn't. You gotta stand up for your boys rights to be with you! That is all he wants!
also... your baby was with you through your last break up and helped you through it! how could you turn your back on him just bc you are happy now with a new guy? He is how he is bc you made him that way! Needy and dependant! My boys are like that too! I made them that way! I needed them when I got them and gave them sooooo much attention, now they are very clingy to me! but I did it! I know Yorkies are a lot of work and need TONS of attention, but they are that way and you had no problem with thor before and now you do bc your bf does! hhhmmmm sounds unfair to me! Be AWARE - guys like this WILL be like this if you have a child with them!!!
GOOD LUCK!