I am 27 as well, and your mother sounds a lot like mine. I had many a difficult talks with her on variety of subjects, one of which was visiting. If it were up to her, I'd visit her every weekend. While I understand why she feels this way, it's simply impossible to do due to my work schedule and other matters. You are a grown woman and have taken on a big responsiblity with the addition of a little puppy to your family. If you don't feel comfortable bringing her to NYC (and I agree with you completely, by the way), then you should be firm and tell your mother why you won't come. Welcome her to visit you anytime she wants. It's difficult to say no to parents, especially when they use the guilt card. Good luck! |